The most loving thing to do is to do what your heart tells you. Noone can tell you to
pull away completely if you love this man. He is an addict and he has to want to give
it up on his own but by the looks of it, he is fine being an addict. If you can carry
this CROSS for the rest of your life without having to complain about it, then do it.
I am walking in your mocassins and feel for you because truly it is hard when you love
someone, to just give him up ans if he was an object and even that sometimes it is hard to give up...you don't have to live with him but you can talk and spend time with him except don't let any of this influence your dreams, your goals, you do have some don't ya??? follow your heart....good luck and God Bless!!!