Brutal
So let the psychological warfare begin!
Since my last post, my AH was served with the order of protection for our kids and myself, and he should be served with the divorce papers today. He has not attempted to contact me which has been a relief in a way. He has been transferring all of his craziness to my dad now which makes me feel horrible. My dad is keeping the lines of communication open with him in the hopes that he will finally decide to get help. Judging from his actions so far, I don't have high hopes of that.
After the protection order was served, he had a policeman escort him to the house. where he proceeded to trash the place and break things. The cop did nothing. Now he is posting brutal things about me on social media about how much of a liar I am and a deadbeat mom for keeping him away from his kids. I guess I shouldn't expect any better from him. But after 20 years together, he sure knows how to hurt me. I'm trying to stay positive and hope that the people who truly know me won't believe the lies. Just really hurtful, and I'm so struggling right now.