I have woke this morning and have decided to start making my plan.
Last night my oh came upstairs to where I was keeping out of his way and put a proposal to me...I start doing more around the house from tomorrow & he will stop drinking but needs a few days. Aaggghh. How many times can you say the same rubbish in a different way!
My first step is to ring a DV helpline as lots of people have suggested. I will feel better when I know a bit more from them.
Luckily our finances are separate so he doesn't have any access to my stuff & all my paperwork is in one place for me to grab.
That's only 2 steps but is a start