Originally Posted by
Hangnbyathread 
If you were ready to leave her, enough to have an affair, why are you so upset that she wants to leave you?
It doesn't really matter who leaves who now does it?
I am not upset that she wants to leave me, because she doesn't. I am at a loss simply because I caused this time to happen and I do not know what to do. I messed up and I am owning that.