wantobehealthy......this article (which id verrry good)....is parallel to the caterpillar analogy.....
The caterpillar will become a butterfly when the discomfort of staying a caterpillar exceeds the pain of becoming a butterfly.....One will leave when the fear of staying is greater than the fear of leaving.....
When I decided to divorce my first husband....I can still remember the split second when I thought....."I cannot stay with this"........
dandylion