Del please get back on the wagon. It took me a bit to get the reference about your legs... OT when you have a new awesome job and $$$ you should sign up for Blue Apron ( or similar plan? You are in UK right?) anyway all the ingredients and instructions. Will teach you how to cook like a pro in no time! JL sounds a lot like depression to me...... She will need medication to get better if its a serious bout and the sooner the better. Its worse than alcoholism - well except it easier to recover- but it completely warps how you see things, perceive things and you get to where you just want to cry all day and not move. Yep obviously had it once. K helping my mom move this morning. Then need to do serious housework. Wish it was warmer here so I could start gardening again and dig out my shorts a d sandals. Wow I bet they will fit great too!