Still up in the air. I don't tell him ever what I am doing. My daughter is provided a cell phone by me that she always has at her dads. She also has an I pad that she takes should the phone not work or he ever decide to take it away.
Yes, the wife, nutty as she is, does not ever drink around the kids. Nor would she, I do believe that. I don't think my DD is in any imminent danger, it's just even if he drinks a little she knows, and it sends her anxiety through the roof.
Honestly, I am so tired today that going seems like a chore. I did not sleep at all last night after a disagreement with my older child, so I am tired to the bone today. Going out to dinner with friends tonight, so maybe that will just be enough.