Originally Posted by
Hawkeye13 
Let them garnish his wages--don't ask or tell him anything.
I have to agree with this. It seems that he threatens to take you to court over many things, but really how many ever got to court?
I think he is trying to push your buttons, and I think you need to pull the trigger. Let him take you to court after you have his wages garnished.
Then when he takes you to court to lower the garnishment, you can say, I agree, (or not), he is making less now.
He may try for parental alienation, but you have records for all of this. You know when he showed up at police headquarters and when he didn't.
I think it's going to be a battle for anything, (of his choosing) and I would want to stop these battles. You can't stay mentally stable with these assanine attacks all the time. Sorry for the spelling.
Don't be afraid, there are many people here for you. Take that first step to enable yourself. (unless you are afraid for your life, then contact DV).
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