Thanks for posting, I found the following very useful and a great reminder of why itīs good I broke up with xabf:
"If your relationship is going to fail, you WANT it to fail fast. Be honest about what you want. If he’s unwilling to give you what you want and won’t honor your feelings, or he runs away, isn’t that all you really need to know about him in terms of your long-term compatibility?"
Iīve been feeling very sad this past week, tormenting myself with doubts, so this came just in time.