Yep-another one was always joking about how (jokingly said) that women should just stay at home in the kitchen and take care of the kids....always said jokingly. During multiple drubken tirades I was told that my only duty was to feed fun and f**k him-so, yeah....he really thought that.
Aries-same for my ex....racist, mysogomost, bigot....all disguised in jokes at first until they weren't humorous. :/