Thank you all so much. I've been off the board for a few days, my daughter had oral surgery. Then went and spent time with family for the holiday. It was good to get away from it all for a while.
No more bullying has taken place, but if it does I plan to shut it right down. I do not plan to be berated for this. I am taking care of it, and that is good enough. Ugh. I will admit to anxiety over all of it, but it's so close to being done that I am just trying to take it a day at a time.
All of this has made me take a step back and see I've not come quite as far in my own healing as I would like to think. He still gets under my skin, I still react to his trauma and drama. I hate that, and am going to work on it. The good thing is that he won't be able to hold this over my head any longer.