Do what you have to do until you finally realize that it is you that has to come to terms with he is doing. His behavior will not change. He will not change. You will change by deciding not to respond like you did so many times before. The power is yours. Don't give it to someone who only cares about himself. Take control or you will go crazy being powerless. Stop the insanity. You deserve better. I wish you all good things. Especially self-respect so no one will bring you down.