Originally Posted by
Kata 
Chelle, Yup. It's funny.... When it's not your life!
It's also "funny" how they keep reminding you of all those great things they did for you! He told me once that I should be more thankful that he took care of me while I had the flu, and how he cooked for me (with food he didn't pay a cent of), and blah blah blah.
Yes dear, you deserve a medal. You took care of me while I was sick! Isn't that an extraordiray thing to do when your partner is sick!
Come to think of it, he never paid much for food... Or anything else for that matter, because you know, poor poor him, he was out of a job... Again.
Yes "poor me" was a big one too.....he played the victim a lot and I feel for it a lot lol
And there was never an apology for his awful behaviour.... Like it was just acceptable because he had been drinking. The more I step away and look at it I'm a little embarrassed that I "put up" with this lol he had not long been out of jail for a dui when we met again... What was I thinking lol