Thank you so much... You are all so wise and encouraging. Our relationship has been in total just over a year.... And it just hurts like hell to say goodbye to him... But I know it's the right thing to do
I loved the comment of "he was, is etc" that REALLY struck me. I gave to stop feeling sorry for him and start looking out for myself .... What's crazy is we were bf/gf in our Late teens ( now early 40s) and it was his drinking that seperated us back then lol thank you again wonderful supportive people x I must stay strong