I think everyone tries to keep their old life, and just not drink.
That's was a real problem for me because my life was actually all about drinking.
I cannot count the number of times I've gone to a bar or to a mates place and stay sober...only to drink again the next time.
I was counting on self control over something I'd clearly demonstrated I had no control over.
Of course, you may be different to me - but please do not let down your guard.
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