SoberinSyracuse is right. Move on. I'm around her age and have been through many relationships. Drama is not love. Your bf sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do. And that's ok -- he's only 22 and you're only 21. Way too young to really know what you want out of life and/or a relationship. Hopefully, though, you will realize that this is something you DON'T want and seek a more peaceful, easier relationship the next time around. You cannot save him, change him, be there for him, or anything else. You have your whole life ahead of you....don't waste it on negativity and futility! :-)