Originally Posted by
Tangled34 
I asked him to leave last year in the hope that he would get help for his drinking
Tangled, when you are obsessing about him day and night do you put blame on yourself for asking him to leave? Do you second guess your decision?
When I left a long term relationship I left with allot of self blame and guilt that I really didn't own but was accepting. It took me a long time to work through all of that.