Great thread Layali! I've been having the romantic fantasies of having just one or two drinks with a lovely meal, like the cherry on the ice cream. But all I can say is that I have been there, done that, and don't need to tell y'all where that lovely meal ended up. Take all the advice on here and with every romantic thought of alcohol, force yourself to conjure up a very ugly thought - you are sure to have plenty, so jot them down and keep them close at hand, just in case the AV trues to drown them out!