Are you the same Twofish whose children disrespected you at will, and who went running after them anyway? I can't believe it's the same woman. You sound so resolved and together.
Asking your daughter to leave might be turning point for her. I hope so. She possibly had your as a refuge of last resort, and without a fall-back maybe she'll decide it's up to her.
I know it's not a funny situation, but I had to smile at the God texts, coming from her!