Old 03-13-2016, 10:01 AM
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SoberinSyracuse
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Originally Posted by ru12 View Post
Perhaps the 'no big changes' is to protect the newly sober from irrationally changing careers, spouse, geography, and the like when they are freshly sober. Working at staying sober was enough for me at the beginning. I certainly wasn't doing my best thinking in early sobriety. I do think there is a lot of collective wisdom in many of the things that AAs say. I particularly think that the booklet Living Sober was useful.
THAT is indeed the crux of the matter! How to recognize the difference between positive fundamental changes that can and should be embraced and flailing, irrational upheavals.

I question myself on this very frequently.
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