I've told my parents in no uncertain terms that I will not support my sister when they're gone. I've also told them that I would be more than fine if they skipped a generation and left their estate to their grandkids.
My sister is convinced that all she needs to do is visualize the money and it will appear because God will take care of her. I feel sorry for her because when she says that she's really saying that she believes that she does not have the capability of taking care of herself.
But what can you do?
I'm sorry BlueWisteria that you're going through this, but thank you so much for posting about this. I struggle with my own guilt, even though I know that this estrangement is really for the best.