Hi Blacky,
Failed to answer your post re "what's going on"? It was "women's business" blacky just like "man's business" as is in Aboriginal culture. Not sexist, but sometimes people need to talk to someone of their own sex to get understanding. Just like blokes do in their sheds I hope. Everything's good now. that's how I read it an anyrate. Hope you get the rotten wood out. Off to pick up my mad (in a good way) brother so must close hope everyone is well. (