Originally Posted by
SparkleKitty 
Postponing a wedding is not the end of the world. But legally binding yourself to someone and bringing children into a home with active addiction is devastating
I can't advise you what to do since I am not in your shoes but I wish I had taken this exact advice before I got married. It's been hard... Really hard... and once you are married walking away becomes a hundred times harder. Take your time before making what you hope to be a life long commitment.