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Old 02-27-2016, 04:46 PM
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dionysos803
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Thank you so much for your compassion and words of advice.

Originally Posted by JOIE12 View Post
We become snagged each time we think we can make a difference in a grown adults life when they choose NOT to make any changes themselves.
Originally Posted by JOIE12 View Post
it may not make any difference to them but it may drag you back in.
You're absolutely right... I guess I already knew the answer to my question before I ever posted this. I just needed somebody to let me know I was on the right track. As I am sure almost everybody here knows the pain and suffering and just how hard it is to deal with family members suffering from this illness.

Before I ever wrote the original post, I think I was still hoping there might be a chance he may not be hooked on drugs again and I could be making this all up. But deep down I know the truth, I know what he's doing, and you're right reaching out to him isn't going to make any difference other than dragging me back into potential chaos. Thank you so much for helping me come to the conclusion I knew, but wanted to turn a blind eye too.
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