Im going to leave a note for my friends fiancé about the cat. She needs to be released from her pain. It's more than time. If he doesn't follow through, I'm afraid there will be a rift in my friendship with my friend. I don't know why she's become so deferential to her fiancé. She's changed since she's been with him. I emailed her about my concern about the cat, and she responded that her fiancé needs to be ready, that the cat has been a companion for many years he was on his own. Heck, he doesn't even spend any time with her in her dark basement prison!