I honestly crave that feeling more than anything. I'm doing everything within my power to make the transition out, but my RAH is severely depressed and unmotivated. He isn't originally from the states so he has a small network of people so he doesn't have many options. I know what I have to do...but I have to trust that my husband will work things out. If I overstep, he resents me, if I do too much I enable him and he resents me. Gotta keep working my steps and taking it one step at a time.