Thank you all for your responses. I know you are all right I just had to hear it from someone else. My husbands stance is either this works or we cut him out completely, which seems unfair. The idea would be not to work there anymore.
My husband sent him an email on Tuesday, trying to mend things out and just have a real conversation with him. My father OF COURSE did not respond and I have to see him everyday. So it's getting very tense at home with all of the "hey your dad didn't respond, did he say anything to you?" I'm honestly embarrassed beyond all hell at this point.
I've got to start a plan of action with my sponsor because in her opinion, she thinks I should stay there til I finish my degree. 😨😨😨