Welcome Deeds, Sexy Sadie and mrs? !
If you're dealing with someone else's alcoholism and find yourselves affected by their behaviors (and it sounds like this is the case), you'll certainly find support and ample opportunity to unburden yourselves here on SR...
*Please give us the opportunity to get to know you by starting threads of your own in this Friends & Families forum. Feel free to introduce yourselves, ask questions, bring up a topic for feedback and discussion, or just vent. Whatever you need to do, we'll be here with you!
I wish you peace and I hope you'll stick around awhile...
*I see you've already begun some threads. Good for you!!!