I frankly don't care about going to the wedding. In fact, I didn't even know about the wedding until X called. Of course, he is an A and wouldn't know how to do a mature thing even if it came and bit him on the A$$ but what he should have done is run it by the groom first and then invited me. But the most likely scenario is the fit that X Mil probably threw when he told her he invited me. It's rude and hurtful what he did.
Sue