Hi Tom that point in your life starts with day 1 and it slowly keeps building by staying sober = no more drama, there is so much I needed to learn like help with my thinking my reactions and such in sobriety as i was diffrent person sober and my thinking was still the old me at times that lead to cravings frustrations arguments over thinking etc I done things like AA, group therapy, cbt, I read a lot on recovery, short courses, volunteering, service at AA, got my relationships back on track with my 21 & 5 year old neices and they really love thier uncle wolf it fills my soul with joy
Basically I done anything & everything to stay sober and here I am 951 days later at 33 I have my life back & I have almost finished renovating our home with Mrs sw heading to 16 years together
Miracles happen I see them all the time