Originally Posted by
Cococo 
Dee - so what your saying is, if we can make it to the 3 month mark, then it becomes significantly easier? Or are you talking about going to AA meetings for 3 months?
I believe Dee is just saying that with time, sobriety will be easier and not require as much work and willpower--whatever, program (or lack of) is used.
However, that time frame is different for everyone Coco, so I wouldn't expect a drastic change to occur between day 89 and day 90. It's more of a gradual and slow process. And from my past experience, even at 90 days, while I was much happier than I was at 30 days, I still had work to do.
Personally, I'm just focusing on each day and keeping myself busy with non-drinking activities. I'm really not spending time looking too far into the future, as I feel it's not a productive use of time. I enjoy each sober day as it occurs, and so far that's been working out well for me.