I hear you on the worrying about how you look and worrying about getting old...what I do is just keep telling myself that that worry is false and was conditioned into me by a society that still places a woman's value on whether or not she has a relationship. All I can do is tell myself that I KNOW (and I do know it) that's not true and not productive. It's tough being female but that makes us stronger! Do not let your AH's BS live rent free in your head....you are strong, independent and worthy.
