Originally Posted by
theuncertainty 
1. AXH lost his right to see and talk to DS with the last custody hearing and after his last GF won a restraining order against him.
What exactly is your dilemma? He lost the right to see and talk. What rights does this woman have? None?
I'm really not getting it.
Your ex might use the kid as a sob story. "My mean mean wife does not let me . . . what a cruel cruel person she is . . . sniff." And the girlfriend fell for it. Abusive people do that to their new partners. They play victims. I just feel the boy is being used here. I would talk to him, and see what he thinks. But I clearly doubt a child so young feels like writing more often and sending pictures. He has smarter things to do. Such as being a kid.
I do not think you are overprotective.