Originally Posted by
Yoga 
Screen, intercept the mail.
She has no right to be doing that and he's probably putting her up to it.
It's a form of stalking and harassment I'd say.
I think that's a bit of a stretch. I know that I worked very hard to try to help heal the relationship between my last ex and his kids. Toward the end of our relationship I suspected that his ex-wife was not the wicked witch he'd been telling me she was. Still, I never badmouthed their mom and never worked to undermine her--I just thought it was sad that the kids were sometimes estranged from their dad, whatever the reason.