Dear Cow, have you ever thought of referring to your father by his first name? 'Papa' sounds like a term of endearment which he doesn't deserve. Since you told us your brothers chided you for not being overly enthusiastic about this birthday I've been seething a bit. I know you're very fond of your little brother particularly, but to say that is insensitive, invalidating, and just plain thick is an understatement. I find it hard to see how you can get well when you've got that crap in your life. I really, really want for you to be happier, but like all of us, I love you just the way you are.
Re Valentines day....does nothing for me at all, but spare a thought for Mrs Trump. It would be like making love to a sea elephant in a wig.....shudder.