STBXAH used to blame the kids a lot for his drinking and bad behaviors...
"I just can't stand the crying.... and they don't stay asleep all night long... won't stay in their own beds... get up too early... they're too needy."
They're BABIES!!
And MAYBE... if you didn't drink so much and yell and scare the **** out of all of us, they might be a little more secure and wouldn't cry and whine as much, and would sleep better. Maybe....
Maybe it should be the other way around and say, "I cry because Daddy drinks" But that wouldn't be very cute for Facebook.