I'm heading into my 4th week after the break up and haven't heard from him since last week because he saw my grandmother on tv. No hi how are you just i think i saw your grandmother on tv. My guy is in recovery from when i last left him and it hurts so much that he doesn't care about me anymore. That i am nothing to him and everything I did to help him get clean is meaningless. He said he wanted time and freedom to focus on himself but I know thats just his way of trying to not hurt me by telling that instead of I'm sober now and I don't love you. i miss him so much...