My ex ALO needs to take more stuff Monday. He feels like I'm storage and low priority, so I'm on radio silence. I meanwhile have found more meth that I've handled with gloves and baggied separately. I just want his stuff off my property so I can deal with the thousands of dollars he did to my property. If I get him to pick up at all, good chance he'd be verbally abusive and kick in my drywall so he "wouldn't have to kick in your head." In that case, I'd take off Tuesday and get a restraining order that would, in essence, fire him since we work together.
His SIL thought that would be overkill that would destroy him, similar to how a heroin addict would get killed if they choked on their own vomit and you let them. She's in his family and said they'd be devastated.
I said I'd enlist others to get the property to him. That I wouldn't cause his job loss, no.