A friend reminded me that any "man" that's not willing to stand up to his mommy verbally abusing his wife and feels entitled to abuse his wife and kids is Not husnand material. Duh. Why I put up with it for so long? That's my work-and never again. Looking forward, not back-back was hell. Forward will be peace-he can have his mommy-I hope they have a nice long life together with all of his demons. Not sad anymore. My ex is not a good person, and I'm glad I'm gone. He was a good guy, but no more.