Welcome, cat5!
It's extremely difficult to witness a child continuing to choose a risky and negative lifestyle and who is not interested (!) in available supports and help, and I understand your pain. We experienced a situation similar to yours with my son from the time he was about 15 until he moved out of our house a couple of years ago (he's now 24). My son turning 18 was especially significant in that the law recognized him as being responsible for his actions and he had to face consequences (ended up in jail at one point, which was a good thing).
Of course, it goes without saying that parenting can be an arduous task and then even more so when drugs and rebellion crop up; it's difficult sometimes to decide what's the best path when you're right in the thick of it, I know, and especially when the teen is a minor.
Hoping your son heals quickly from his injury, and best wishes for your other children, too.
Wishes for strength and peace for you and your family. Keep coming back
