Thank you all for your thoughts! SIS, I think you are really onto something regarding letting a guy distract me from my goals. I did end up having a face to face talk with him last night. I could tell he had been drinking when he came over, not to the point of being completely inebriated but definitely buzzed. He apologized for being insensitive and listened to me when I told him about my plans for sobriety. I just don't know how much he took it seriously or was capable of taking it seriously because of the fact that he had been drinking. Not sure what I'm going to do with him yet, but I'm going to make myself my main focus and I am looking forward to the trip tomorrow to Florida with kitty to get away from things here for a while.
And Ariesagain, thank you for your advice regarding the joint pain. It makes sense since I've had toxins in my body for sooo long!