He became defensive and verbally abusive tonight when I asked him what happened. I asked if he was scared, unaware of the level of care I needed early on, angry... He denies he dropped the ball. He says I'm a liar. He said it's over between us if I believe he dropped the ball. He completely denies any negligence or wrong-doing. He called me names. Extremely combative and immature.
That's all I needed to hear I guess.
I was trying to understand, in order to get past and forgive. It completely blew up in my face.
He became enraged, hateful, and verbally abusive.