you admit to snooping....and then making grand assumptions on what you think you know. i agree with Lex.....if HE was doing that to YOU how would that feel???
altho you stated it was JUST to check his ability to maybe pay support....this was revealed : I kind of felt pity (I know I know).
thus i suspect your motives may be a teensy bit suspect.....regardless, leave other people's personal lives alone. as you wish yours to be.