Originally Posted by
Plink 
nothing became obvious to us until he lost everything .....I guess we had blinders on....
Hi Plink,
I understand this all too well. Addiction sneaks in like a thief in the night. We have no idea until it is brought to light all at once. By then our loved one is much deeper than we had imagined. What torture. They are on their own journey, as we are on ours. We cannot control their addiction or cure it. We must focus on what makes us happy and what brings us peace throughout the day. We must allow ourselves to recover while loving and praying for them from a short distance.
I am wishing you the best and pressing onward alongside you!