Hi gogo
I think it all depends on what you think you can handle. If your bf wants to stop and shows evidence of doing something about stopping, all well and good.
If not tho, you might want to reconsider your future with this guy?
You'll find a lot of support and experience here anyway, both in this forum and our Family and Friends forums too
The Alcoholism and Addictions Help Forums- by SoberRecovery.com
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