Originally Posted by
courage2 
If it's any help at all, most of the time for me, the future I'm depressed about and fear turns out to be very different than I expected by the time it gets around to being the present.
((Soberp))
There's only been a couple of times that that was not a truism for me, also.
'Potamus, will it help if we temporarily call you SoldierPotamus?
Feel better, soon.