Originally Posted by biminiblue

Hang on. Three month/four months is still early on. The anxiety will die down - but it took me nearly a year. Keep going - it is a miracle - you are a miracle. Not drinking is the natural state.

There is plenty to do that doesn't involve alcohol. I think maybe you will find new friends if you find some hobbies or volunteer. If someone encourages me to drink they are not a friend in my opinion.