Just knowing you need help and you need a plan is a good start, Mike. Keep coming back here and posting and talking, and people here will help you. I agree it's not one size fits all, you'll have to find a plan that works for you.
Have you tried meetings at all? Even if that doesn't end up being your long term approach, just being in a safe place with sober people can buy you some time to help you stay sober while you develop your plan.
