Originally Posted by Girlfriend
His family now "hates" me and calls me a "B" which also makes me mad. I put alot of work into ex AB to get some help (enabling, I know) and back then, to them, I was an "Angel".
WHen I told him I wanted out and he'd tell them how "mean" I was to him, then they hated me.
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Same thing happened to me with xabf's family. His "mama" is the world's biggest enabler; I truly don't think he will ever take responisbility for his actions, hence he will never recovery, not with her following behind him and cleaning up all his messes...*rolls eyes*
I was the biggest angel and saint when I gave him the ultimatum, two years ago, to either get his butt to AA or I was out of there. They said if it wasn't for me, he would have never gotten sober. Now, I'm the bitch!! Too funny!!
Stay strong and have a good 4th of July!!
