Redatlanta, you nailed it on that one. Like I am some fool. I said to him one day how is it that the history is always blank now when I know you are on the computer working (and we use the internet for our work scheduling). He'd say he has no idea and doesn't know how any of that works (when all else fails, play dumb). And yes, then I was, once again, told I was crazy and paranoid. And talk about the crazy things we do? One night I set my alarm for 4 am (when he wakes up to work) and snuck around the outside of my house in my pajamas to look in the window of our office to see what he was doing on the computer! OMG, the insane things I would do because I always knew he was lying. Whether it was about porn or drinking or whatever. He said to me once, he lies just to lie, but only to me. Lucky, lucky me.